Am I callous?

Ok so today Claire asked me to save her from the hatred of the drama dept...and i told her to fuck off...cause it's not my job to help her. We aren't that close...

Am i doing the wrong thing?

Don't Say That Name Again

There's one simple way of dealing with this situation:
Stop referring to him as your ex. Truth of the matter is; he probably won't be permanently out of your life for a long, long, long time. So, what you need to do is think of him as

A) A jerk to you.

B) A jerk to your friends.

C) Claire's boyfriend.

And when you take this point of view on him, instead of someone you were once the closest to, and infatuated with, you shall see that he's just another person in your life. One of whom's impact upon your life is based solely on you from this point on [:

Did that make sense..? Or was I too confusing :P

<3

Question?

How can I get my ex all the way out of my life? Sean is all over the place...he:

A) Is a jerk to me at school

B) Is mean to Natasha so of course I hear about it lots cause I'm her best friend. Which is fine I just wish he'd stop

C) His fucking gf keeps bringing him up!

HELP.

resolutions

i was so gunna just post almost the same thing u did lol great minds think alike ;)

1. This year i really REALLY want to work on selfless-ness. I want to become MORE selfless. Sometimes i make things revolve around me and it just causes unnessary stress and drama.

2. Letting go and moving on. I need to drop all in my past that isnt worth remembering. And I need to stop taking stupid little things to offense. If someone makes me mad i need to drop it and LET IT GO! i cant let anything go its so hard for me to do. Earlier this year someone in the hall ran into me (Bc he had another kid in a headlock and was being a dumbass)after they hit me and knocked me into a wall i muttered dumbass. Then he calls to me and says fucking bitch! I turned around and screamed IF I HAD SOMETHING TO THROW ITD B AT UR FUCKING HEAD! I had to have three people hold me down so i didnt go after him...and im still pissed about it! i cant let things go and i NEED to.

3. Im done taking peoples shit. I WILL NOT let anyone put me down or talk back to me and if that means being a bitch then so be it. I dont deserve glars and being put down.. no one does.

my resolutions.. itll be hard but if i work at it, itll make things better :)

New Years Resolutions?

Yeah, I've started to not do resolutions anymore cause I'm too lazy...

but i think this year it's to stop taking myself so seriously. Relax...just...simmer down

What are yours?

Concerning Family...

We cannot chose who we live with as our family...but we can learn to deal with them. The upside to all this is that you have an understanding of those kinds of people now. Which, somewhere down the road will probably help you. Understanding often does. I'm so sorry Shelbi. Just, endure. That's all we can do in the end.

Don't Believe The Hide

Oh, darling.. ]: I'm so sorry for what's going on.. I wish I could be there more to help you out... I wish I didn't finals and work right now so I could actually help you. But.. I really can't be of much help.. Except I can tell you that you're ot the only one.. My family is pretty cool now.. But that's nothing like how we used to be.. I used to hate coming home. More than anything. I couldn't stand anyone in my family.. I was always being put down and treated massively unfairly and unjustly. I can't EVEN remember my beatings from when I was younger just because there were just so many.. I was getting punished all the time and it was if I was getting punished for other people messing up too.. But don't worry, love.. Things WILL get better.. Just hold strong, be patient, like you always tell me to be ;P It may not change within your family, but at least when you ARE gone things will change and you will be so happy. You'll have a great time at Alexandria, I'm positive, even if I won't be able to enjoy those times with you.. /: But I'll always be here wating for you, dear... Always [:

I love you.

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