Monday, February 15, 2010




is this truth?

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Not Perfect Is GOoD

My dear! Haven't you read everything I've written?? I know you have [;

Dating is the only way of discovering who your soulmate is. Well, not the only way.. You could be miraculous enough to find your soulmate right off the bat.. But, you and I both know that neither of us were one of those people. Unfortunately..

Misconception actually. We are not unfortunate! Like I've said before, these people we've had relationships with have helped us learn who we are, and in the end, who we want. Without Cassie, Chantell, Kenzi (Not your sister :P), Zoey, and everyone in between, before, after, friends, and family, I would have never become who I am and I would have never discovered all the things I want or need in a girl. I'd never have found my Shelbi and fallen in deeper than love with everything there is to her. Converse, drumming, acting; everything. Without my past relationships, none of it would be possible.

Did your parents ever tell you, "Dating is just practice for marriage" ? It's true along most lines. Dating is the means of finding yourself and who you are. The kind of people who marry the first person they date are pretty lucky if they stay together. People always change. And until you've discovered everything, or at least most, of who are, that's when you can truly find that person for you. Until then, sitting around isn't going to teach you what you enjoy in life and love! That is why you must form relationships that teach you these things

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How's that help?

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

So, to reference Rich's theory on love...

so what is the point of dating before we find our soulmates??? Is there a point? How do we know when we've found the right one?